From Judith Warner's column in the New York Times. At the end she talks about how conservatives can think like liberals better than liberals can think like conservatives. I have noticed this about myself. Often with other situations, I can imagine how someone else might thing differently about something. But I have a lot of trouble trying to do this with conservatives. I do just feel like they are totally wrong and almost evil (OK, evil if they are Karl Rove or Cheney), and can't even start imagining. But it does seem like you have an advantage if you can think like the other side. It helps you think of ways to reason and argue with the other side.
Haidt has conducted research in which liberals and conservatives were asked to project themselves into the minds of their opponents and answer questions about their moral reasoning. Conservatives, he said, prove quite adept at thinking like liberals, but liberals are consistently incapable of understanding the conservative point of view. “Liberals feel contempt for the conservative moral view, and that is very, very angering. Republicans are good at exploiting that anger,” he told me in a phone interview.
Perhaps that’s why the conservatives can so successfully get under liberals’ skin. And why liberals need to start working harder at breaking through the empathy barrier.
I can imagine someone who is anti-choice/pro-life. I can imagine a rich person wanting to keep their rich-person tax cuts. But I have trouble imagining lower or middle class Americans thinking Republicans will be good for the economy, for their lives. But maybe that's not what they are thinking at all. Maybe that is the problem.